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Bisexual community is not the same thing as bisexual dating, yet the two can easily become mixed together.
Someone may join a group hoping for friendship, support, shared experiences, or ordinary conversation, only to find that introductions quickly turn into flirting, private messages, couple invitations, or questions about availability. This can make people who are partnered, grieving, asexual, private, questioning, or simply not looking to date feel as though the space was not created for them.
Dating and attraction can be valid community topics. The problem begins when every interaction is treated as a possible romantic or sexual connection, or when friendliness is interpreted as interest.
Clear boundaries, separate dating areas, visible moderation, and activities that are not organised around meeting partners can help a community feel broader and safer.
Have you ever entered a bisexual space looking for community rather than dating—and what made you feel included or caused you to withdraw?
Please do not use this discussion to seek dates or private contact. Focus on community culture, boundaries, and the kinds of connection you were hoping to find.